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As a black woman, I wanted to be seen as attractive to more than just black men.
This wasn’t simply because I’ve always believed in inclusivity, but also because I grew up surrounded by white people.
As a young girl and even throughout college, I was frequently annoyed when my peers would suggest that I would magically find a partner if I exclusively pursued black men.How can I support the advancement of black people if I have never let down my walls for a black man myself?It’s not that I am not happy in my current relationship. Rather, I am torn between the progressiveness I naturally pursue and the regressive nature of a society that still makes me feel “less black” for dating a white man.Together, we like to listen to Lauryn Hill’s music and watch soul-stirring documentaries on incarceration.But the aspect of our love that I’m most grateful for is that I’m finally loved because of my Afro-Caribbean heritage, not in spite of it.
Even when I have expressed romantic interest in black guys, it has always been a futile effort.